there were 4 elders deleted from my congregation 2 years ago.
they were all in their 60/70's and were deleted because a young couple were getting married while the husband was not free to marry according to one (younger) elder. the other elders didn't agree, because his ex had a boyfriend accotding to his children, but that was not enough evidence.
whrn they were deleted, after the meeting you could only hear people cry and hugging each other out of grief. they were elders for a long time and much loved within the congregation.
because of all this my dad had a stroke and i decided i could not pretend anymore and never went to a meeting again...